Quando penso al giorno in cui ci sara’ il mio funerale mi vengono in mente tutti quelli (per fortuna non tanti) a cui ho assistito. E forse per questo desidero che quando sara’ (sperando il piu’ tardi possibile) non sia neanche minimamente simile. Ho visto scene di disperazione, urla di dolore e una tristezza palpabile.
Si’, e’ vero sei a un funerale, pero’ dato che personalmente sono portato a pensare che quello e’ l’ultimo giorno sul mondo terreno dell’amato forse sarebbe meglio un saluto migliore.
Quando ci sara’ il mio funerale spero che sia una bella giornata, piena di sole, con gli uccellini che cinguettano. Immagino la mia bara con il mio feretro attorniato da fiori bianchi, rosa, blu in modo da creare un’interno bara colorato. E io con gli occhi chiusi e un sorriso stampato in viso.
E non voglio scene di disperazione, bensi’ mi piacerebbe che tutti fossero sorridenti nel venire a darmi l’ultimo saluto.
E mi piacerebbe che durante la cerimonia la gente pensasse a cio’ che ho fatto, ai rapporti che ho avuto con loro.
Mi piacerebbe sentire i ricordi di esperienze che ho vissuto con loro, “vi ricordate quando io e lui …” e tutti giu’ a ridere. Non voglio vedere gente che soffre perche’ io sono morto.
E chissenefrega di quello che diranno gli altri …
D’altronde in base alla religione (qualunque essa sia) viene detto che il mondo dopo la morte e’ un mondo migliore percui perche’ le persone devono disperarsi per il fatto che sto’ per andare a vivere una vita migliore?
Una cosa che assolutamente non vorrei e’ essere tumulato in un loculo! Questo assolutamente mi farebbe rivoltare nella tomba. Non voglio vivere in un loculo. Ho vissuto una vita in un appartamento e anche da morto devo stare al 9° piano?
No, voglio vivere in una tomba nella nuda terra a contatto con l’erba e gli animaletti che vivono li’ sotto. E poi vorrei che fossero piantate delle rosare ai miei piedi. Bianche e blu.
E sulla lapide una bella foto sorridente e un bel messaggio di speranza e allegria per il futuro di tutti.
Queste saranno le mie disposizioni nel momento in cui mi avvicinero’ al giorno sperando di essere ancora lucido e autosufficiente e non come un vecchietto che ormai ha perso il lume e la ragione.
Amen!!!



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    be , me lo chiedo sempre anch’io il perchè di tanat disperazione se ci insegnano che passiamo a vita migliore. però sai, ci sono casi veramente tristi in cui se qualcuno muore lascia in difficoltà le persone che restano e per quanto sia possibile recuperare col passare del tempo, all’inizio risulta tutto impossibile.

  2.   Agroedolce Says:

    Hey….là
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    Non è ironia…è realtà di un momento…un momento che affronteremo tutti ed allora viva la signora Morte….
    Le lacrime, la disperazione….solo la paura per chi rimane di essere abbandonati …..
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  3.   kris Says:

    Bhè…ti auguro che il momento sopraggiunga il più tardi possibile. Circa la speranza che gli astanti al tuo funerale non si mostrino disperati…fai in modo di non lasciare aperti i tuoi debiti sospesi. Ehi ..^__’.. ovviamente scherzo! Ma come ti viene di pensare al tuo funerale??..E vabbene che oggi è domenica e come si sa è un giorno tristissimo!
    Buon inizio settimana.

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